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I still don't have peace about marrying him, and I think it's due to a lack of attraction to him physically and emotionally.His good qualities are dwarfed by the things I find annoying or even embarrassing, and I'm way more attracted to other guys physically.Since then, we have dated off and on and have recently become engaged.From the articles I've read on Boundless, I'm sure you would assure me that he's a catch.What does the person do that does not feel the attraction – and when?Here are some thoughts: Expectations: It is very important (especially when using the Internet!!Two years ago, I began dating a young man with whom I had recently become friends.Although I wasn't romantically interested in him, my family members who introduced us urged me to give him a chance because of his godly character.
I know you say that attraction isn't everything, and I definitely agree. In a day where the age of first marriage keeps getting older, it's understandable that people in your life would encourage you to consider, and then marry, a man they perceive to be such a good catch.
For myself, it depends, the most I've done is four dates with not feeling anything and there being no connection. fwiw...u feel if you are atracted to, knowing someone comes with time , a date it's suppose to make you want to know this person and on top of that want to kiss him, hold his hand,listen to his voice, to make u want to hear more of what he has to say .....i was madly in love with my boyfriends but i didnt know them ..i only knew a little and what i knew came with time not from the first night ....connecting ...mean a smile that may make u feel something inside ...^^^Yeah it's pretty fast. The only reason I would go a date with someone I wasn't 100% into during a first meet is to determine connection beyond attraction.
You feel like you're really kinda just spinning your wheels. If there is no attraction then there's no reason to plan a date (or continue the meet you're at for very long).
I was just reading somebody else's post and it got me to wondering.
when you meet someone and there is no connection, no chemistry, no...nothing, but the person is really cool, decent, nice, attractive even but you just don't FEEL IT, how many more dates would you go on with this person before you let them know "its not you, its me" or "hey, just not feeling" or however you would decide to let them know that you don't want to see them again?